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1- Constantly Building Relationships<\/strong> \u2013 they care about others and how others are doing. They listen deeply because they have a curiosity for learning about life in all its ways. Victor Frankl spoke about this in \u201cMan\u2019s Search for Meaning\u201d \u2013 living to serve others is a mission that allowed survival of Nazi concentration camps.<\/p>\n

2- Never Share Victim Stories<\/strong> \u2013 there are hero stories (I am responsible for the situation, I must change if I want the situation to change) and victim stories (\u201cthe traffic made me late\u201d, \u201cmy boss won\u2019t let me\u201d, \u201cnobody listens to me when I speak\u201d). I don\u2019t hear many Victim Stories from resilient people.<\/p>\n

3- Forgive Themselves Quickly<\/strong> – they understand that the \u201cme\u201d of 2 years ago took the best decisions that the \u201cme\u201d of 2 years ago was capable of taking \u2013 I didn\u2019t know then what I know now.<\/p>\n

4- Forgive Others Quickly<\/strong> \u2013 they understand that everyone is on a difficult journey of their own and face challenges that I am not aware of. Often someone angry at me may have a sick parent, or a tough financial situation.<\/p>\n

5- Take Decisions Quickly<\/strong> \u2013 they don\u2019t wait for perfect information. They take a decent decision with the information available and move on. They understand that you can take another decision tomorrow \u2013 even reverse today\u2019s decision if necessary.<\/p>\n

6- \u201cThank you\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 to waiters, to investors, to toll-booth staff, to teachers, to cleaners\u2026<\/p>\n

7- Reframe Constantly<\/strong> \u2013 They reflect upon their life and re-examine past experiences based upon today\u2019s wisdom. I find that my view of my childhood and 20s changes because I see frustrations, challenges and hard work differently now than I did when I was 25. Back then I thought \u201cI am gifted and I deserve success\u201d, now I think \u201call meaningful work requires suffering\u201d<\/p>\n

8- Forward Looking<\/strong> \u2013 the first instinct is to ask \u201cwhat can we do now?\u201d when faced with a setback, rather than \u201cwho\u2019s fault is this?\u201d<\/p>\n

9- 5 Pillars in Life<\/strong> \u2013 Pillars in life can be work, family, tennis, teaching, gardening, writing\u2026 Resilient people have multiple deep interests. They don\u2019t live 100% for work or 100% for family.<\/p>\n

10- Separate \u201cState\u201d and \u201cPerson\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 They understand that the state does not make the person \u2013 a state of bankruptcy is not a failed person \u2013 it is a momentary point on the journey. Charles Barrington, the Irish climber who first summited the Eiger mountain in 1858 \u2013 was at the lowest point of the mountain at 3am and on the summit at midday \u2013 he was the same person at 3am and midday. A resilient person understands that climbing mountains is not always uphill.
\nSource: conorneill.com<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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